This story about a child who touched my heart,
Joshua, when he first came to my center two years ago he was very withdrawn, he
didn’t interact with the other children, and he barely spoke. I remember saying to myself that he had the
saddest eyes I’d ever seen. No manner
what I did to try to get him to interact with the other children he would just
sit or stand but never participated in any of the activities. During free or outside play he would stay to
himself even when the other children tried to get him to play with them. I voiced my concerns with his mother and she
told me that she had been in a very abusive marriage and was currently going
through a very ugly divorce and that her husband was very negative towards
Joshua, as well as her and that was one of the reasons she moved back in with
her mother. She explained to me that he
was always well behaved and fairly quiet and often played by himself. After speaking with Joshua’s mom I sought out
different ways to try to get Joshua to interact with the other children and to
get him to engage in the daily activities, on this one particular day last
fall, I remember that day as if it were yesterday, it was time for Art and some
of the children asked if they could paint that day; and I said yes. As usual Joshua just sat at the table playing
with the paint brush, so I walked over to the table kneeled down, gave him a
great big hug and told Joshua that I needed to him to paint me a very special
picture so that I could hang it on the board; to my surprise he began to paint
and when he finished he got up and brought the painting to me and told me it
was a painting of black birds that he had seen when he went to the beach. I was overwhelmed with joy because for a year
and a half this child barely spoke, he proceeded to tell me that he loved
running in and out of the water when the waves came. I was so happy and surprised, I gave him a great
big hug and held his picture up to show to the rest of the children and we all
clapped our hands as I hung his picture on the board. Back 2 Basics is committed to providing
quality and loving care. And our goal is to provide a variety of exciting,
stimulating activities each day so that each child can develop socially,
emotionally, physically and mentally to the very best of his/her ability. I believe Joshua just needed feel safe and
that there were other who truly did love and care about him. Joshua is now attending public school and is
doing very well. His mother called to
tell me that he made the honor roll.
Aw. Isn't it amazing that we remember the stories that are a blend of sad and happy at the same time. Sounds like Joshua was going through a lot. It is good that he had you and your center. He clearly needed a safe place. It is great that you could reach out to his mother and she felt secure and could tell you the truth about her situation. Sometimes parents don't feel secure enough to tell teachers about this type of personal situation. And look, he's on the honor roll now!
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