Saturday, December 6, 2014

Saying Good-bye…

Several years ago while working at a college I had the opportunity to work on team to develop a mentors program. We developed a website where the students could log onto to sign-up for a mentor, we recruited members from both the private and public sector, such as attorney, physicians, bank managers, marketing directors, human resources managers, just to name a few.  The programs was designed to match the students’ career goals with a person who was working in the same career or possibly even retired.  For instance if we had a student who was interested in a career as an attorney or a pediatrician then that student would be assigned a mentor in those particular career fields.  Several of the mentors were fellow alumni’s of the college and often recommended and recruited other professional colleagues or friends to join the mentor association.  I had the privilege of working with a pretty outstanding group of people, some of which up to this day, we still keep in contact with one another.  Letting and saying goodbye was very hard, because of the close relationships that were developed over the course of the year while implementing the program.  The great thing about the mentor association is that each year a banquet is held for students, their mentors, and the founding committee, the president of the college and other dignitaries and members of the community to celebrate and to close out another successful year.  Many of the students continue to a close bond with their mentors well after graduation and into their adult lives.

5 comments:

  1. The adjourning phase is best when you work with great people and you have a connection. I have had both good and bad experiences working with teams. I see both sides.

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  2. Hi! Sandra, awesome mentor program. I am sure it so beneficial for students to have a mentor in the field that they are interested it. Without your team commitment, hard work, trust and support, the program could not be possible. Great work Sandra and its great that they are still in touch with each other. I always find hard to keep in touch with people you used to be close during your college or earlier life. Thanks for sharing.

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  3. Hello Sandra,

    Congratulations on the success of developing the mentoring program to help the students. Being a part of a group that collectively works together for the improvement of citizens in their community is a honor. Just as you shared, it allows you to help others and develop lifelong friendships. It also helps you develop a network of like minded individuals for future projects. It's great that you all meet annually to celebrate, reconnect and reminisce. Continue to be a service to others, it's people like you that makes this world a better place for us all.

    Tabitha Abney

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  4. Sandra, I love the idea of creating this website. This took me back to high school when the seniors were paired with the freshman to help them with dealing with the wonderful world of high school. They were there to talk, share information, and guidance. This helped a lot of freshman adjust to from a world where many individuals depending on their parents to provide for them and hold their hand all the way through and immediately cut the "apron string" from them instantly.

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  5. Sandra:
    It was good that you were able to build that type of relationship within that group and to be able to celebrate with everyone year after year after year is amazing. Some of those friendship obtained through that relationship will never say goodbye!

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